COMMUNITY

The circles

Long before retreats, before facilitators, before anything had a name to market, there was this: people sitting in a circle, speaking one at a time, being heard without being fixed. It’s the oldest technology we know, and it doesn’t need a jungle to work.

Lunita holds two ongoing circles, online, alternating weekly: a men’s circle held by Gerald, and a women’s circle held by Esperanza. One week one circle meets, the next week the other, a steady rhythm you can build into your life from anywhere.

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What is a Lunita circle?

IN SHORT

A Lunita circle is an online gathering held by one of Lunita’s facilitators, Gerald for men, Esperanza for women, meeting on an alternating-weekly rhythm. The format is the old one: a held opening, a theme or a question, and speaking in turn: witnessed, not advised, not interrupted, not fixed. It’s the community’s living thread between retreats, open to people who have been to Lunita and people who haven’t yet.

How a circle works

You arrive, you’re welcomed, the space is opened. There’s usually a theme, something true enough to be worth an evening, and then the circle does what circles do: each person speaks when it’s their turn, for as long as they need, and is listened to. No crosstalk, no advice unless asked, no performance. Passing is always allowed; some of the most important attendance is silent.

What people report isn’t mystical. It’s the specific relief of saying something out loud to people who aren’t trying to solve you, and of hearing your own situation in someone else’s mouth.

The two circles

The men’s circle, held by Gerald. A grounded, compassionate field for men to speak without performance. The full picture: the men’s circle

The women’s circle, held by Esperanza. Lunita’s resident Mayan medicine woman, holding the form her tradition never stopped practicing. The full picture: the women’s circle

Meet them both

Joining

The circles are online and the door is simple: write to info@lunitajungleretreat.com and we’ll send you the next session’s link and the rhythm of upcoming dates. Come once before deciding anything. Circles explain themselves better than pages do.

Questions

Do I need to have been to Lunita?
No. Many circle members found the circles first and the jungle later, and some never come in person at all. Both are full membership.
Do I have to speak?
No. Passing is built into the form, and listening is a legitimate way to attend. Nobody is called on.
How often does each circle meet?
The two circles alternate weekly, men’s one week, women’s the next, so each meets on a steady every-other-week rhythm.