The voice of the land

“Everything green here grew through something that ended. Weight is not a stranger to this ground.”

— Lunita

For what you're carrying

Grief is not only death. It's a person, yes, and it's also a marriage that ended, a pregnancy that didn't hold, a parent who is still here but no longer themselves, a country you left, a version of your own life that quietly closed. Anything heavy or threshold-shaped belongs on this page.

This retreat doesn't promise to take the weight away. It offers something more honest: a place built to hold it with you, for as long as you're here, without once asking you to perform being okay.

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What is a grief retreat at Lunita?

IN SHORT

A grief retreat at Lunita is a private, personal retreat, three nights minimum, five to six suggested, created with Nico, Lunita's co-founder, and personalized from a circle of more than twenty facilitators. At its center: Esperanza's grief support sessions, Gerald's quiet presence, the temazcal, ceremonial cacao, and days with genuine room in them. Some retreats here are mostly tears. Some are mostly silence. Both are right.

Built around your loss, not a curriculum

No two griefs match, so no two of these weeks do either. It starts with a conversation with Nico (what happened, where you are with it, what kind of held you need) and the retreat gets built from there: which hands, which sessions, how much structure, how much room.

And one thing we hold firmly: there is no rule about how soon is too soon. That question gets answered honestly, person by person, on the call. Sometimes the answer is come now. Sometimes it's not yet, and here's why, and we'll be here when. How personal retreats work

What the days hold

Esperanza's grief support sessions. Lunita's resident Mayan medicine woman holds grief the way her tradition has held it for generations: one-on-one sessions where nothing needs explaining and nothing is too heavy to say out loud. Meet Esperanza

Overhead shot of a woman in a saffron-yellow traditional tunic pouring dark cacao liquid from one terracotta clay cup into another, surrounded by…

The temazcal that doesn't ask you to explain yourself. Heat, steam, song, darkness. The sweat lodge has been a place for grief far longer than there have been words like “process.” Many guests say it's where the body finally got its turn to cry. The temazcal

Cacao, when the heart wants company. A gentle ceremony, sometimes just for you, sometimes shared, the old Mesoamerican heart-opener, for the days when silence has done its work and something wants to move. The cacao ceremony

Quantum healing hypnosis. A long, practitioner-guided session in deep relaxation, what its practitioners describe as a journey beneath the conscious mind. For grief, many guests use it simply as the deepest rest available: hours where the weight gets carried by someone else.

The cenote. Cool, ancient water in a quiet cavern, ten minutes from Lunita. Some things only dark water knows how to say.

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Held silence, protected rest. Long unscheduled hours. Meals made for exactly you, that take as long as they take. Hammocks, the pool, the jungle's noise instead of conversation. Nobody here needs you to be doing better than you are.

And, if it's right for you: the Tree Planting. Hands in the soil, a tree settled into the jungle to close the week. More than one tree out there was planted for someone who isn't here. The jungle keeps them all. The Tree Planting

If the loss is part of a fertility journey, there's a retreat built specifically for that ground: the integration journey.

The medicines: optional, and held with extra care

Grief is not an illness, and the sacred medicines are not its cure. And still, for some guests, in some weeks, a ceremony belongs: a place to meet what's underneath the weight, with an experienced holder, real preparation, and real integration after. It is always optional and never the assumption. Most grief retreats here are carried by gentler hands: the temazcal, the cacao, Esperanza's sessions, time. The weeks that include a medicine ceremony include it deliberately, decided together, never on day one. How ceremony works at Lunita

What this isn't

Not a program for “moving on.” We don't do closure here. We don't believe in it much, honestly. Grief doesn't end; it changes shape. The aim of a week like this is to carry it differently, not to put it down on command.

Not therapy, and not a substitute for it. Esperanza's sessions and everything else here sit alongside professional care, not in place of it. If your grief has become thoughts of harming yourself or not wanting to be here, the right first step is professional support where you live, and we say that with full warmth: we'll still be here after.

The practical side

When you're grieving, the logistics shouldn't be one more weight. So, plainly: food and accommodation are 220 USD per night for one person, 360 for two sharing a room, three meals a day included. Everything else, the sessions with Esperanza, the ceremonies, the length of your stay, is shaped with you in the call, with no pressure and no fixed package. If cost is a worry, say so on the call; we would rather find a way than have it be the reason you don't come.

Questions

How soon after a loss can I come?
There's no rule. It's decided honestly on the call, your situation, not a policy. We've welcomed people weeks after a loss and people ten years after one; both were the right time for them.
Do I have to talk about it?
No. Silence is a complete answer here. The sessions exist for when words come, and a retreat that's mostly quiet, with the temazcal and the jungle doing the talking, is just as legitimate.
Is this only for death?
No. Grief in the widest sense: a person, a relationship, a pregnancy, a home, a chapter, a self. If it's heavy and it ended, it qualifies.
Do grief retreats include the medicines?
Only optionally, and less often than you'd think. Most weeks are carried by the gentler work. When a ceremony does belong, it's decided together, with screening, preparation, and integration, never as a default.
What is a grief retreat?
A private retreat for loss in the widest sense, a person, a relationship, a pregnancy, a version of your life that closed. It makes room to grieve at your own pace, held by Esperanza's grief support and the gentler ceremonies, with nothing asking you to perform being okay.
Is there a retreat for grief after the loss of a loved one?
Yes, and you can come whenever the time is right for you, weeks after a loss or years later. The week is built around Esperanza's one-on-one grief support, the temazcal, cacao, and long protected rest, with nothing asking you to perform being okay. If the loss is part of a fertility journey, there's a separate retreat built for that ground.

Start with a conversation

You don't need the words yet. “Something ended and I'm carrying it” is enough to begin. The retreat gets built from there, with Nico, around you and what you've lost.

or write: info@lunitajungleretreat.com